It's Not What You Say, It's How You Say It?

Have you ever seen people who get whatever they want while you marvel and how they do that? How is it that some women can get their men to do anything or vice versa. Maybe it's not just what they say but how they say it. We need to learn how to be persuasive not manipulative when we talk to each other and learn how to say things in a way that makes the other person