When is it ok for your family to "Check" your mate?

With So much controversy surrounding the Jay Z, and Solange situation, We want to know would you allow a friend or family member to “check” your mate or put their hands on them in an attempt to put them in their place do to something that took place during a private moment between the 2 of you? Whether it’s done privately or publicly, does one way or the other make it right?  Join us tonight and give us your thoughts on this situation.