Can you have Love and Success without settling for less?

In this day in age everyone is trying to get to the very top of success.  However is it possible to really grind so hard to find true love?  Is it true that people make time for what they want or is it supposed to just happen?  Is it harder for a successful woman to find the man of her dreams that is not as successful as they are?  Are they destined to be alone or should they settle for less?  Your Co-host Diva Shante will start us off on this show and Ms Shawnta will follow her lead.  Call in with your questions and feedback so we can spill some tea!