Be Truthful with yourself first

Most people when they become aware of themselves they tend to want to tell the truth to everyone... like he is not good for you, you should do this or that, that dress looks horrible on you, and all manner of advice.  But that is not truth.  That's your opinion. And though it is needed sometimes, it is not fair to use your view to steer another person.  Being true to yourself is a life-long practice that requires honesty and clarity. To know your truth fully and express it authentically, you first need to cultivate a deep and trusting relationship with yourself.