What's Right about Me that I'm Not Getting?

It's rare that someone asks, "So, what's right about you?" Oh wait! No one has EVER asked you that? What if, when things took a turn for the weird, you began to ask, "What's right about me that I'm not getting? 

Until a couple of years ago I'd spent a lot of time writing journals and lists of all the things that I could fix, things I wanted to be different, things I could have done better, and conversations that could have gone differently.

Until I started asking a different set of questions, I was stuck looking at what was wrong and avoiding it... or fixing it... or fixing it if I couldn't avoid it... None of that was freedom... None of that actually acknowleged what was actually possible nor did it foster greater choice. 

So what does it take to move beyond the automatic, "What did I do wrong!?" into peace and ease... into the joy of living, the ease of choosing, and the creative expression of being you