You did it, you went to dinner to meet his family, he is saying he thinks you're "the one." You love the idea of being his wife, but that family dinner was the epitome of dysfunction, everything from the drunken, lewd uncle to the angry, violent younger brother who just got out of jail, to the rude, insulting older sister who won't control her wild children, to the mother who seems to be approaching senility - she can't see all those roaches crawling all over the floor? You can't marry into THIS family! Or can you? Should you? Does a dysfunctional family make a person unfit for marriage?