Shrink n Drink Mini-course: How to have a "good" argument

Dr. Julie Helmrich, psychologist from Milwaukee, WI and originator of Shrink n Drink, delivers a weekly mini-course on a topic inspired by the questions asked at Shrink n Drink LIVE events, the questions asked on Shrink n Drink: The Radio Show, and questions asked by couples and individuals with whom she consults directly.  Today's topice covers "good" fights.  For a good fight to occur, the speaker has 3 responsibilities; the listener has 3 responsibilities.