Say' Tell Us (what we need to hear & know)

Todays show, Monday May 7, 2012 consisted of Jazmin from Manhattan, NY, Tyra from Cincinnati, Ohio and Alvin from Tulsa, Oklahoma calling in. Alvin reminded us that today we chose to discuss “Looking for Cinderella-Cindefella or settling ...for what you have”. Alvin said when we start looking for Cinderella-Cindefella you put people on a pedestal. And we should not settle for anything less. You obtain what you desire in a mate via dating experiences which enables you to find someone that meets closest to the qualities of what you desire, want and need in a mate - when you settle for someone that does not meet your desires you are being lazy because you did not put in the hard work that it took and or takes to find that person who is meant to be your mate. Jazmin said it’s difficult for some to be in a relationship because they don’t know ‘themselves’ nor know what they want and are uncomfortable being with themselves and that is where the problem stems from because they do not know themselves or how to enjoy themselves; you have to start having a relationship with yourself first before you can begin a healthy relationship with someone else. Tyra said it is ok to be happy with yourself and we must realize we are born and die alone, we must feel comfortable in our own skin and our own company and love ourselves - some things we have to face by ourselves and some people get too consumed being in a relationship therefore one should never lose their individuality.

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