"FREINDS";" ENEMIES" ; OR "FRIENEMIES"

AS OF LATE THE QUESTION HAS COME ABOUT OFTEN; DO WE REALLY HAVE FRIENDS OR FRIENDLY ENEMIES?  I SAY OFTEN; WHO EVEN NEEDS ENEMIES WHEN FRIENDS BEHAVE SO HATEFUL AND DISRESPECTING OF THOSE WHO ARE SUPPOSE TO BE THEIR FRIENDS?  SINCE WE HAVE BEEN SAVED MOST OF OUR FRIENDS HAVE TURNED AND HAVE WALKED AWAY FROM US AND HAVE NEVER LOOKED BACK ON US AS A FRIEND THAT THEY WOULD DESIRE TO BE IN OUR COMPANY.  SOME FRIENDS HAVE LEFT WITHOUT AN EXPLANATION OF ANY KIND.  IT IS NOT ALWAYS CLEAR AS TO WHY IT IS THAT PEOPLE CHANGE ON ONE ANOTHER.  WHILE WE THINK THAT OUR FRIENDS WOULD BE THE ONES TO PRAY WITH US AND FOR US, THEY ARE SOMETIMES THE ONES THAT ARE CAUSING THE RUCKUS AND THE COMOTION IN OUR LIVES.  A VERY TRUE FACT IS THAT, OFTEN TIMES THE VERY SAME FRIEND THAT YOU HAVE GONE OUT OF YOUR WAY FOR IN MANY DIFFERENT WAYS, THEY ARE THE SAME FRIEND THAT WILL WALK AWAY FROM YOU AND AJOIN THEMSELVES WITH OTHERS COMPARING THEM TO YOU; SAY THAT THE KNEW FRIEND IS A BETTER FRIEND THAN YOU; EVEN THOUGH THEY HAD JUST MET THE OTHER PERSON??  I HAVE HAD THIS EXPERIENCE, AND LET ME TELL YOU IT HURTS DEEPLY!  I HAD RUN ALL OVER THE CITY THE STATE AND IN SOME CASES EVEN THE COUNTRY HELPING DIFFERENT PEOPLE, ONLY TO END UP STANDING ALONE WHEN IT CAME MY TIME FOR THE ASSISTANCE OF THOSE PEOPLE WHO WERE SUPPOSED TO HAVE BEEN MY FRIENDS!  THEY DIDN'T HELP ME, AND MANY TIMES THEY DIDN'T EVEN PAY ME LIKE THEY HAD PROMISED FOR MY SERVICES; BUT BECAUSE I SAW THEM AS A FRIEND; IT NEVER MATTERED UNTIL I WAS MADE AWARE THAT THEY NEVER INTENDED TO PAY ME IN THE FIRST PLACE!  I HAVE TOO MANY NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES FROM SO CALLED FRIENDS TO WRITE ABOUT THEM OR EVEN TO DEDICATE THE SHOW ABOUT THEM!   BUT PERHAPS I CAN HELP YOU AND ENCOURAGE YOU AND TO SHOW YOU HOW TO HANDLE THE NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES THAT GO ALONG WITH EVERYDAY LIVING WITH WHAT WE CALL FRIENDS.  LET'S TALK FRIENDS!!!!!!!!