Confessions of a Hot Chick After Dark!

What is your definition of a true "friend"? How many do you think you have? And I'm talking about the ones that you can depend on. Not the one that you laugh and joke with one minute then say you "can't stand her ass the next. Or the one that'll leave you hanging to get her sex thang going. Or the one that looks for you to pay for her meals and drinks because she thinks you "have it like that". Or the one that complains about every damn thing, constantly feeding on negative energy. Plus, how long does it take to build a true friendship? Can men and women have a geniune friendship?