Whatever Wednesday- Is being gay lifestyle or choice?

Tonight's topic is asking a difficult question, is being a gay a lifestyle or choice of preference? Gay now want the right to marry legally, obtain spousal privileges and benefits such health, pension ect. Gays are now preachers of churches and they are fighting hard to have the books changed from stating "man and wife" Is their lifestyle or choice being thrown on the straight world with any recourse or apologies for being who and what they are? Let's talk about and get out of our system.