Very Important! This episode is about how my rhetoric about the "Art of Being Nice" seems to be in contrast rather than being parallel to what one of my favorite Christian pastors, namely, Joel Osteen preached about today, Sunday, November 11, 2012 A friend called me this morning and asked me to turn on the TV and watch this particular Joel Osteen show. I watched! As usual Joel made clear how to properly coordinate. "Christian thoughts with Christian behaviors ". I don't usually disagree with Joel, yet, this time, not only do I disagree, I believe that what Joel asked "Chistians" to do today is hurtful, unfair behavior, that is responsible for relationship disharmony and is also guaranteed to keep "love out of the air". Tune in for my take on this important subject. You, like most people that I know already agree and behave just like Joel preaches, and not with Ms Ruth Rhetoric. But, if you LISTEN to me now, then you will recognize how your mindset will be evolving into more of a mindset like mine when it comes to this subject.