the 90 day rule: how long is too long to wait before you consumate ?

sex! the topic on everyone minds most of the time lol ive gotten so many inquiries from our men listeners and they seem to be irked when a woman hits them with the 90 day rule lol Why are men so pressed about sex ? do they not see it is a cause an effect cycle ? to me most women mistake lust for love and there fore causes miscommunication which leads to strenuous relationships. On another note there are some women who can be agressive and press men for tht next step not realizing once u open pandoras box thats it!