Bachelor/Bachelorette parties is this a good or bad thing?

When a man and woman decide to get married. its has always been known for the man to have a BACHELOR PARTY., but now its the women coming having one of their own. Most women feel its not a good thing for the man to have one, b/c it opens the door for infidelity. Do you all think Bachelor/Bachelorette parties are a ticket straight to splitsville, or is its it one night of good old fashion partying/ drinking before tying the knot forever?, or is this the opportunity to have one last fling before the big day? we love to hear from you as we chime in on the topic. live on air 10pm ct 11pm est listen live on facebook, i tunes, twitter, and so on.