HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR CHILDREN? LISTEN OR HEAR ?

Tonight we want to discuss how we communicate with our children. we often say "I am the parent , you are the child I brought you here and I will take you out" is that a good way to communicate? does it send mixed messages to your children. do you think this is why parents don`t allow other parent or elders to correct their children any more? is this why now the children`s rights activist say if you correct your children with a strong hand you are violating their rights as human beings? lets look into the many ways of comunication and let examine the way we comunicate with our children and see if we have been Wrong ? or Right?