WHAT PART DOES THE SYSTEM PLAY IN SEPARATION OF FATHER`S FROM THEIR CHILDREN?

WHY IS THE GOVERNMENT PLAYING HEAD OF HOUSEHOLD AND WOMEN DEPENDING ON A SYSTEM THAT ENABLES THEM BE INDEPENDENT INDIVDUALS? WHAT HAPPENS TO A FAMILY THAT BECOMES DIVIDED BECAUSE OF THE MEN BEING JAILED,TOLD THAT CAN`T BE WITH THE CHILDRENS FATHER BECAUSE THEY LIVE IN LOW INCOME APARTMENTS COLLECTING WELFARE. WOULDN`T IT WORK BETTER IF THEY BOTH WERE TAUGHT TO WORK TOGETHER TO FORM A STRONGER UNION BETWEEN THEM? IS STABILITY ONE GOAL THE GOVERNMENT SHOULD UPLIFT?