WHOSE TOUNGE SHALL RISE AGAINST YOU?

Food for thought. Today my goal is to address parents and children, with a long standing question I've had, but yesterday I belive the Spirit of God  gave me an answer.The question was how do God judges dead beat parents and children that are disobedient? Well, to my amazement the Spirit of the Lord told me there was such a thing as dead beat children also, just as there is dead beat dads, there is dead beat moms, and there is dead beat children also.Is.54:17 says tounges shall rise againt us,, but if we are to condem them, we are to be a servant of the Lord. Are you a servant of the Lord? Well if not you can't condem or stop the tounges from rising against you.The children will ask uou where were you  where we you when I was hungry? Where were you when I was naked? Where were you..and the parent will ask the child when I told you the truth, why you  yo the praises of my god, and tlling you of his wonders, how come now  grown up to be disobedient, unthankful and and unholy?