Lamar travelled around North America for a couple of years with a bunch of dykes in a bunch of vans. Once they imploded, her van broke down stranding her in Seattle which turned out to be the perfect place for her. She opened a tattoo shop in a slightly run down but affordable neighborhood and watched the gay community spring up all around her. Eventually, the developers arrived, rents quadrupled, and now the "gay" neighborhood is no longer so gay.
She's been writing, and has a new web series, Casa Van Dyke, which is a collaboration with Danielle Villegas a local film maker. It's about a bunch of dykes who are old on the outside but young on the inside. The one thing they have in common is that they forgot to plan for their retirement, so they now find themselves resorting to communal living during their so called twilight years.