Bringing The Word To Life"Speaking with the wisdom of God"

We've been taught the freedom of speech meaning you have the right to say what you want to say but at what cost. tearing people down when we are suppose to edify and encourage them. Some  believe that they should tell you what they feel or shall I say what's on their mind.My questions to you because you feel a certain way is it okay for you hurt someone else with your mout?,some people never recover from words released over their lives.Yes God wants us to speak TRUTH but it's guide lines rules and regulations concerning your tongue and the words we use. Many use the scriptures to say harsh ugly things. Anything said out side the character of God isn't him one may say how can I say this? God never stop being God to say what he wanted to say and he always show love even in chastisement.