A big myth A single mom can raise a boy to grow up to be a man without the male influence.. I hear it all the time I don't need a man..Well you had one and he's gone.Single mothers. In the United States, 83% of single parents are mothers. Among this percentage of single mothers: 45% of single mothers are currently divorced or separated, 1.7% are widowed, 34% of single mothers never have been married. If you can't get along with the baby father how in the hell can you raise a growing male child that don't have your bitter opinion running wild..Your anwser is Me. I will show you the way in my new segment with my own advice to you,,This is real & The ugly truth -Lets Hammer This Out Singles Moms -Along with our other trending topics.