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Wise SOTSS "Take On" ASK: How to ask for what you want

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Why do we find it so hard to want things for ourselves and ASK for them? We may feel we don't deserve them or we can only get something we want at someone else’s expense.

Asking for yourself DOESN'T mean: being selfish, putting yourself first or ignoring others wants or needs.  It DOES mean: putting your wants and needs equal with others in your life, expressing your heartfelt desires and making sacrifices for YOU, not just for others.

What is it that you really want? What does it look like? Be specific. See the details. State what you WANT, not what you think you can get or what others may want for you.  Write it down, make a vision board, set a time frame.  Take a deep breath and DO IT! 

GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT.  For many, this is the hardest step but it’s EASIER if you ask from a win-win perspective.  We’ll show you how to do it and you’ll be surprised at how often the answer is YES!

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