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Sex and the dating game
Just three weeks away from the event Don't Wait. Fornicate. The Sex in the Struggle team discuss how to keep getting what you want when you are exploring a monogamous relationship. How long do you wait before you have sex. Do you continue to have sex with others while you explore a long-term relationship? What are your rules?
Sex in The Struggle conversations are based on the book Forgive: the new mantra and practice for Black Men by Ulysses “Butch” Slaughter. Get the book now at ulyssesbutchslaughter.com.
From the essay "Something That's Good for Me"
We shouldn’t need a special occasion to make love. We shouldn’t require perfect circumstances to submerge into pure and playful passion.
This is sure to be one of the most difficult sections of this book for some Black Men to engage. It’s so simple to dismiss sexual healing as silly indulgence. It may be easier to puff out our chest than to open up our hearts. Marvin said love is life. Lovemaking is generative. Are you making love? And if you’re not making love, what are you fighting for?
