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  • 00:28

    Gay Marriage Planning: Expectations Versus Agreements

    in LGBT

    What's the difference between expectations and agreements?  Why should you care?  Listen in and learn how to better match what you say with what you do.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions.  Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage. Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:16

    Gay Marriage Planning: Hidden Costs / Pricing The Priceless

    in LGBT

    What is the cost of living from a number of unique perspectives.  By the end of this segment, you'll discover the price paid for that which you may consider priceless.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions.  Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:25

    Gay Marriage Coaching Episode 10: Divorce Ethics From Morals

    in LGBT

    What's the difference between ethics and morals.  How does integrity fade or grow?  Join us to explore why we need to divorce the marriage between ethics and morals to strengthen all relationships - starting with yourself.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions. Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance. 


    Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:27

    Gay Marriage Planning: Unwrap & Explore Gifts Of Perspective

    in LGBT

    Time to explore the concepts of time, life timelines and how to be more mindful of this priceless resource.  By the end of this segment, you'll have a powerful chart to explore your future.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions.  


    Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:27

    Gay Marriage Planning: You Get What You Pay For

    in LGBT

    What is karma? How does karma help or hurt relationships.  That old saying, 'what goes around comes around' packs powerful lessons. Get ready to learn.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions.  Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:23

    Gay Marriage Planning: Family & Friends - Oh My!

    in LGBT

    Time to examine extended relationships with family, friends, co-workers, etc.  How do these connections help or hurt the support needed for a long happy marriage? 


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions.  


    Click to contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:21

    Gay Marriage Planning: What Are You Family Facts & Fictions?

    in LGBT

    Have a pen and paper ready to explores the difference between family facts and fictions.  How these facts and factions play out spell out marriage success or failure.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions. Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:18

    Gay Marriage Planning: Discover hidden skills to know each other better.

    in LGBT

    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions.


    This segment explores your unique talents (skills).  How do your unique skills enhance or hinder your relationship.  


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Click to contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:18

    Gay Marriage Planning: My stuff, your stuff, our stuff.

    in LGBT

    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions. 


    This segment explores our material world by exploring boundary setting, doubt, guilt, shame and worry.  


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0.

  • 00:28

    Gay Marriage Planning: Dear Diary - A Tool To Create Lifetime Support

    in LGBT

    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions. 


    In 30 minutes, Soul shares a powerful tool to use BEFORE you get married.  This time-tested tool helps every couple be as ready for marriage as they can be.  


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:30

    Will Arkansas anti-gay law legalize discrimination for all unprotected classes?

    in LGBT

    Monday, February 23rd, Arkansas Governor Asa Hutchinson allowed a new law to block future anti-discrimination laws (to go into effect 90 days after the legislative session ends later this summer).  While the premise of the new law known as SB 202 appears reasonable, in actuality this law allows legal discrimination for all non-protected classes.


    In this episode, we hear from three Arkansas residents.  Meet once again Scott Wyant, Founder of Straight Talk Arkansas, a website dedicated to Living liberally in the Mid-South.


    We'll also hear from Cathey Shoshone and Christina Harrison. Cathey is the Co-Chair and Christina is the Founder of Arkansans For Equality.  


    Christina Harrison was born and raised in Arkansas. She founded Arkansans for Equality in 2011. As an ally, she had become frustrated with the bigotry she came across towards our fellow Arkansans in the LGBTQ community and wanted to do something to help. She began a ballot initiative to repeal Amendment 83 soon after. Christina is a combat veteran in the Army National Guard, and has just recently returned from a tour in Afghanistan.


    Cathey Shoshone, also an ally, was born in Arkansas but has lived in several states around the South. She lives in Arkansas currently, She "liked" the Arkansan for Equality facebook page and volunteered to collect signatures for the ballot initiative.  The ballot initiative became obsolete when Cheryl Maples and Jack Wagoner won their case in Judge Piazza's courtroom legalizing same-sex marriage.  A federal case has also overthrown Amendment 83 to the Arkansas State Constitution. This decision has been stayed pending an appeal hearing.

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