Marriage; depression; cycle of negativity; exam prep

Dr Julie Helmrich, famous Shrink'n'Drink psychologist from Milwaukee, answered these questions: 1)adult best friend betrayals, 2) in a marriage, how to break the cycle of negativity, 3) what is best way to study for psychology exam, 4) why does depression exist at all, 5) How to know what goals we can realistically achieve and not waste time and energy on ones we can't? 6) Husband and I like each other but we fight and issues never seem to get resolved: a) how to know when issues are REALLY resolved, b) what happens when you think it's resolved and then comes up in another fight, c) how can you listen in a fight and not get defensive and wanting to bring up own agenda, d) how can fights actually be productive and not hurt the other person at a deeper level.