Surprise break up;forgiveness;practical jokes;friends w/boss

Dr Julie Helmrich, famous Shrink'n'Drink psychologist from Milwaukee, answered these questions: 1)no more surprise "break ups," 2) easier to forgive others if we forgive ourselves? 3)husband good at playing practical jokes but poor at being the butt of them, 4) Boss's boss tells her we can't be friends. Can she do that? 5) Out of work, desparate looking when I interview, 6) Motivation tip