Find soulmate; put downs; husband attached to parents

Dr Julie Helmrich, famous Shrink'n'Drink psychologist from Milwaukee, answered these questions: 1) how to deal with husband who regularly chooses parents requests over pre-existing plans with wife, 2) best friend dating no-good guy and is socially isolated now, what to do? 3) boyfriend threatened by friendship with ex-husband, 4) what do people get out of putting other people down? 5) How do you find soulmate when you're in your 50's?