Indecisive;body scar;all talk, no do; spouse kid childish;pg

Dr Julie Helmrich, famous Shrink'n'Drink psychologist from Milwaukee, answers these questions 1) any help for indecisiveness, even with small decisions, 2) nervous about boyfriend's reaction to ugly scar on upper leg, 3) how to achieve calmness, 4) my friend worries about not doing stuff she can do and talks too much about it; 5) new husbands adult children living back at home and not following basic rules and not doing basic responsibilities, 6) dating new guy I like, one-night fling with ex- and got pregnant, now what? 7) am I bad for not wanting a relationship with my family, who are mean people? 8) how to give year of personal growth as gift without insulting receiver, 9) are healthy people naturally joyous?