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  • 01:40

    Relationship Central: What Is Real Intimacy?

    in Relationships

    What is real intimacy? Is it merely physical, an emotional connection or both? Could it have anything to do with the spiritual side of human beings? We want to hear your thoughts.

  • 00:58

    Narcissistic Abuse and Recovery: Our Interview with Kim Saeed

    in Psychology

    Kim Saeed is someone I've followed online for over a year. Her blog articles are amongst the top searches for all things related to healing from narcissistic abuse. She is unique in her approach because she focuses so much on the healing process which is considerable. Experts say it takes more time to recover from a breakup with a narcissist (be that a friendship, colleague, family member, partner, or spouse) because you have to grieve twice. You grieve first for the person the narcissist pretended to be (your most loyal friend, soulmate, perfect boss) and then you grieve yet again about the horror of who they actually are: your worst nightmare. 


    Exactly like drug addiction you are high from the intensity during the initial stages of the relationship. You spend the rest of the entire relationship wanting to get back to that initial high that never comes. Being in a relationship with a narcissist is akin to being addicted to heroin. It will slowly kill you. Every time you leave and are wooed back it is worse which is why the term "No Contact" is the crucial point of Kim's practice. 


    Please read her full blog article here.


    What if he/she isn't a narcissist and I'm giving up too soon?


    What if I'm the narcissist?


    Is there a possibility the Narcissist can change?


    I've been in therapy for years, but I still don't seem to be healing. 


    Is this my fault? 


    It feels like no one is interested in me. Maybe the narcissist was right about me. 


    How important is it to learn how to modulate/regulate emotions in the first step in healing?


    How is the term 'grey rock' helpful and why it should only be used in cases of shared custody/shared employer.

  • 00:09

    Borderline Personality Disorder vs. Narcissistic Personality Disorder

    in Self Help

    I discuss the distinctions between BPD and NPD, both of which are Cluster B disorders but do have differences in interpersonal motivation, range of emotions and effectiveness/receptiveness to treatment. To learn more about the differences, pre-order my new book, Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself, here: http://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Narcissists-Nightmare-Narcissist-Supplying-ebook/dp/B01B01O3PA/

  • 00:42

    Randi Fine Answers Your Questions About Narcissistic Personality Disorder Abuse

    in Psychology

    As a survivor of Narcissistic abuse myself I know how frustrating, helpless, and confusing this disorder can be to deal with. As an experienced counselor I know that issues dealing with this problem are always arising. I am fully aware that many of you cannot afford the out of pocket expense of paying for counseling, but do have important questions you would like answered. I can and want to help all of you work through these sensitive issues.


    The second Friday of every month my internet radio show, A Fine Time for Healing, will be entirely devoted to taking to your calls and answering your questions about NPD. The advice is FREE!


    The show airs at 11 a.m. EST and runs for 45 minutes. The number you will call to connect with the show and speak to me is 424-220-1801.


    This time will not be a convenient one for everyone so there is another way for you to get your questions answered. Just email me ahead of time and I will read your questions on air and answer them. I assure you that your identity will be kept anonymous.


    All shows will be recorded and archived after broadcasting. They can be listened to at your convenience by clicking on the link I will provide you when you email me. Please send your emails to loveyourlife@randigfine.com with “Radio Show Question” in the subject heading.

  • 00:33

    Narcissistic Central: Narcissistic Abuse and Addiction

    in Women

    This show is about the connection between narcissistic abuse and having an obsessive or addictive prone nature.
    This is a deep journey into understanding the vibrational nature of life and relationships and why in order to change our relationship with life and other people it is so important to understand and work on our own vibration.
    This show relates to my personal journey and one of the greatest wakeup calls I experienced in my own recovery.

  • 00:14

    Central Lake School Board Intro & Discussion - January 11, 2016 Part 1 of 2

    in News

    Join Melissa Zelenak from the Central Lake News for an informative and fun discussion with members of the Central Lake School Board after their meeting January 11th.   Thank you to our new listeners, and a big thanks to all the school board members as they volunteered to be the first guests on the CL News radio show!


    We laughed and learned a lot about the school and the members as counted the minutes through our very first program. There are two parts to the interview.  Part 1 is an introduction to the member and part 2 elaborates on some of their ideas and hopes for the school system.  


    This is a good time, for our first time, on the air.  Thank you all!


    Current Board Members:


    President Denny Aenis, Vice Pres. Greg Shooks, Secretary Tracy Spaulding, Treasurer Melanie Eckhardt, Keith Shafer, Gerry McAvory and Scott Barrett.


    School District Superintendent:  Ben Williams

  • 00:16

    Central Lake School Board Intro & Discussion - January 11, 2016 Part 2 of 2

    in News

    Join Melissa Zelenak from the Central Lake News for an informative and fun discussion with members of the Central Lake School Board after their meeting January 11th.   Thank you to our new listeners, and a big thanks to all the school board members as they volunteered to be the first guests on the CL News radio show!


    We laughed and learned a lot about the school and the members as counted the minutes through our very first program. There are two parts to the interview.  Part 1 is an introduction to the member and part 2 elaborates on some of their ideas and hopes for the school system.  


    This is a good time, for our first time, on the air.  Thank you all!


    Current Board Members:


    President Denny Aenis, Vice Pres. Greg Shooks, Secretary Tracy Spaulding, Treasurer Melanie Eckhardt, Keith Shafer, Gerry McAvory and Scott Barrett.


    School District Superintendent:  Ben Williams

  • 00:44

    Quantum Realities And Healing From Narcissistic Abuse - Part 2

    in Relationships

    In Part One we discussed some of the templates for Quantum Realities … theories that at the Quantum Level “there is no outside”, and “we are powerful Creators as per the levels of consciousness we are connected to Life at.”

    During Part 2, we take a deeper dive into the Quantum theories and I share with you information regarding how modern Quantum Information is not modern at all.

    As well as this part you may have been really waiting for ...

    How Quantum discoveries such as The Double Split Experiment, The Holograph, Entanglement Theory and Superposition can not only allow us to understand a deeper meaning to life, but also grant us understandings that allow us to heal from narcissistic abuse, and in fact any limitation we have suffered.


    I totally believe it is Quantum Truths that will set us all free to create a new world.

    Discover why I believe this in Part 2.
     

  • 00:40

    Randi Fine Answers Your Questions About Narcissistic Personality Disorder Abuse

    in Psychology

    As a survivor of Narcissistic abuse myself I know how frustrating, helpless, and confusing this disorder can be to deal with. As an experienced counselor I know that issues dealing with this problem are always arising. I am fully aware that many of you cannot afford the out of pocket expense of paying for counseling, but do have important questions you would like answered. I can and want to help all of you work through these sensitive issues.


    The second Friday of every month my internet radio show, A Fine Time for Healing, will be entirely devoted to taking to your calls and answering your questions about NPD. The advice is FREE!


    The show airs at 11 a.m. EST and runs for 45 minutes. The number you will call to connect with the show and speak to me is 424-220-1801.


    This time will not be a convenient one for everyone so there is another way for you to get your questions answered. Just email me ahead of time and I will read your questions on air and answer them. I assure you that your identity will be kept anonymous.


    All shows will be recorded and archived after broadcasting. They can be listened to at your convenience by clicking on the link I will provide you when you email me. Please send your emails to loveyourlife@randigfine.com with “Radio Show Question” in the subject heading.

  • 00:28

    NBS Central Interview with Rod Smith

    in Sports

    Today at 5:30 Eastern Time / 2:30 Pacific, the NBS Central crew will be interviewing 3 time Pro Bowler, 2 time NFL All-Pro, 2 Super Bowl Champion Wide  Receiver with the Denver Broncos Rod Smith.


    We will talk about his NFL career & the Denver Broncos in the playoffs as well as his post retirement community work.


    Click the link below to tune in or download the NBS  Central app (search NBS Central in the app stores) to listen to it at your leisure.

  • 00:41

    Quantum Realities And Healing From Narcissistic Abuse - Part 1

    in Relationships

    This is the first of a two part series regarding the Quantum Model and how it works in regard to healing from narcissistic abuse.


    I have been talking a lot lately on YouTube about this topic and people have been asking for a deeper conversation about it.


    In this radio show you will learn about what “going Quantum” means, and how we can change our “consciousness” to have the power to change ourselves and our lives.


    By sharing this series I know this will grant you the opportunity to revolutionize your life.


    If you have any questions or comments please join the conversation with us on the blog: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/quantum-realities-and-healing-from-narcissistic-abuse-part-1