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  • 00:29

    The Real Deal No (BS) With Host Queen Akaiha & King Dr. Umar A. Johnson

    in Current Events

    Welcome Royal Family, Now calling our royal court to order, Kings, Queens, Prince & Princess take your royal seats. You are in for a stimulating thought provocative conversation on what going on in our lives. Consciousness for sure does Black life really matter to you? Today show is on our relationships. What are the 4 things you need to have a solid relationship?  Kings do you expect your Queen to cook, clean, work, take care of the kids? Do you Queen expect you King to cheat and your're keeping another man on the side?  Queens do you expect your King to work then come home fix the things around the house fix the car and stay in the house with you? Are you telling them what you want before you give away the cookie?   The Royal court in session with Dr. Umar A. Johnson from Hidden Colors 1,2,3, documentary about the real and untold history of people of color around the globe.


    Dr.Umar Johnson is a Doctor of Clinical Psychology and Certified School Psychologist who is considered an expert on the education and mental health of Afrikan and Afrikan-American children. Dr.Umar, as he is known to friends, is a paternal blood relative of both the Great Abolitionist Frederick Douglass (1818-1895) and the late Bishop Alexander Wayman (1821-1895), 7th Bishop of the AME Church, both from Maryland's Eastern Shore. Dr.Umar is an educational diagnostician who specializes in special education issues.


     

  • 00:29

    The Real Deal No BS with Queen Akaiha ~ King Dr Umar A. Johnson

    in Current Events

    Welcome Royal Family, Now calling our royal court to order, Kings, Queens, Prince & Princess take your royal seats. You are in for a stimulating thought provocative conversation on what going on in our lives. Consciousness for sure does Black life really matter to you? Today show is on our relationships. What are the 4 things you need to have a solid relationship?  Kings do you expect your Queen to cook, clean, work, take care of the kids? Do you Queen expect you King to cheat and your're keeping another man on the side?  Queens do you expect your King to work then come home fix the things around the house fix the car and stay in the house with you? Are you telling them what you want before you give away the cookie?   The Royal court in session with Dr. Umar A. Johnson from Hidden Colors 1,2,3, documentary about the real and untold history of people of color around the globe.


    Dr.Umar Johnson is a Doctor of Clinical Psychology and Certified School Psychologist who is considered an expert on the education and mental health of Afrikan and Afrikan-American children. Dr.Umar, as he is known to friends, is a paternal blood relative of both the Great Abolitionist Frederick Douglass (1818-1895) and the late Bishop Alexander Wayman (1821-1895), 7th Bishop of the AME Church, both from Maryland's Eastern Shore. Dr.Umar is an educational diagnostician who specializes in special education issues.

  • 01:18

    How to Be a Safe Place in Your Marriage

    in Relationships

    You've heard it often...


    "Be a safe place for your spouse."


    But how can you be a safe place when your spouse is the one leaving? When your spouse is the one berating you? When your spouse is the one who is not a safe place?


    Why should you be a safe place?


    We'll talk about your questions, concerns, and frustrations tonight on Marriage Radio. Listen live at www.marriageradio.com at 9 pm CST. Missed it live? Find us on iTunes under "Marriage Radio".


    Everyone who reviews the Marriage Radio podcast on iTunes will be entered into a monthly drawing to receive 50% off the Marriage Helper 911 workshop. 

  • 01:38

    Great Sex in Marriage - The Joe Beam Show

    in Relationships

    You may have seen the statistics. One in five marriages are in the "no sex" category. That means they have sex with each other ten times a year or less. Another 15% are in the "low sex" category, which means they have sex with each other 11 to 25 times per year. That means 35% (or we can just round that to one out of three) married American couples between the ages of 18 and 59 make love to each other twice a month or less, and the majority of those are once a month or less.


    Notice that these aren't folks in the nursing home.


    Does making love this little have an effect on a marriage? On sexual health? On potential affairs? On use?


    Yes to all of the above.


    In this program, Joe Beam discusses how sex in a marriage is directly affected by the relationship the couple have. More than that, he discusses how to increase both the frequency of lovemaking and the enjoyment that both husband and wife can gain from it.


    For those couples where one spouse wants to do something sexually that the other is resistant to do, he offers practical advice about how to solve that problem to the satisfaction (emotionally and sexually) of both spouses.


    He also reveals the secret to changing bad sex (or even good sex) to GREAT sex.


    Call in to talk with Joe about specific questions you have about lovemaking, anatomy, or anything you wish to learn. No questions are taboo. (Proper language is required.) 


    If you wish, feel free to use pseudonym to hide your identity. Use a fake British accent if you want, but be sure that Joe talks about what you wish to know by calling to talk with him during the program at 646-378-0424. The program airs live beginning at 9 p.m. Central on February 9, 2016.

  • 01:02

    THE REAL DEAL WITH COURTNEY HARDEN

    in Sports

    Welcome to the debut show of the Real Deal, sponsored by Momentum Shift Radio.  The host is yours truly, Mr. Courtney Harden.  This exciting and new sports radio podcast show will give you the Real insight, analysis and opinions on what's happening in the sports world.  So join me this Saturday, February 6th at Noon-1pm for an hour of sports talk at its finest.


    On the debut episode, I will be joined by special guest Kellie Ruttar, NFL and Philadelphia Eagles blogger as we go in heavy on the NFL, Super Bowl 50 Preview, and Eagles talk.


    Plus in the last half hour, I will be joined by my best friend Jamus Geter to get his insight on all things NBA and Chicago Bulls.


    So join me on the epic beginning of the Real Deal this Saturday, LIVE again at 12pm. Eastern Time


    Follow the show on Twitter @gettherealdeal 


    Like the Facebook Page  www.facebook.com/gettherealdeal

  • 01:08

    How to Be the Hero of Your Marriage

    in Relationships

    Dr. Joe Beam will be joined by his wife, Alice, for this special program as they discuss How to Become the Hero of Your Marriage, and how Alice was the hero of their marriage when she took Joe back after their 3 year divorce. (Watch the video above for some special insight totonight's show...)


    What led to the divorce? What happened while they were divorced? And more importantly...why did she take him back? 


    There's sure to be some laughs, some tears, and some exciting surprises! Don't miss tonight's special one year anniversary show. We look forward to talking to you.


    Plus...we're celebrating our one-year anniversary tonight! 

  • 00:31

    The Real Deal Bible Study With Host Minister Akaiha Numbers 5-11

    in The Bible

    I greet you with the joy that comes from knowing our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.  God's has an awesome purpose and plan for our lives.  Even Greater Things (John 14:12). We are so excited you have tuned in today.  Praise the Lord for the great things He has done!  


      As our ancestors would say  " I'm a nobody trying to tell everybody about somebody who can save everybody". I pray that God will enabled you to further open your eyes and ears to Gods' word.   


    Numbers begins at Mount Sinai where the Israelites have received their laws and covenant from God and God has taken up residence among them in the sanctuary.  The task before them is to take possession of the Promised Land. The people are numbered and preparations are made for resuming their march. The Israelites begin the journey, but they "murmur" at the hardships along the way, and about the authority of Moses and Aaron. For these acts, God destroys approximately 15,000 of them through various means. They arrive at the borders of Canaan and send spies into the land, but upon hearing the spies' fearful report concerning the conditions in Canaan the Israelites refuse to take possession of it, and God condemns them to death in the wilderness until a new generation can grow up and carry out the task. 


     “God is not just in the church; He is also in technology..  “Walking with God is to stand where God stands, and to fight for whom God fights: the poor, the weak, the powerless and the defenseless. Walking with God is to have the courage to know that fear and trepidation before the might of the powerful is overturned by the fear of the Lord !  Walking with God is to understand, without doubt or equivocation that justice is what Yahweh requires.  Ashe Selah

  • 02:00

    Real & Raw "No Holds Barred Adult Conversation" “Is Marriage Killing Sex?”

    in Relationships

    Career stress, financial pressure, children.  The routine that can creep in with respect to married life.  


    Let's ask ourselves the question:  “Is marriage killing good sex?”


     


    “Black Women, White Women.”


    Two different races, two different sets of experiences and, therefore, two different behaviors concerning relationships.  


    Is this true, though?  Are there some characteristics common to ALL women, regardless of race?  


    The bottom line: Do ALL women act the same?  Let’s talk about it! 


    Ladies have you ever wondered what men really think?


    Have you ever tried to tap into the mind of a man on subjects of love, relationships or life itself?


    What drives a man wild?


    Is the sex good enough?


    Have you been in the relationship too long?


    Can a man stay faithful?


    Why would a man cheat with a woman less attractive?


    What drives a man up the wall?


    What makes a man commit to a woman?


    What can a woman do to make sex better?


    When do men know they are in love?


    Those questions a lot more on Real & Raw

  • 00:31

    The Real Deal Bible Study With Host Akaiha Happy Birthday Dr King & Queen Mom

    in The Bible

    Today we will be taking a look at does Black life really matter and to who.  If Black life matters why are we killing each other?  Today would have been Queen Mom birthday who often reminded we havent even made dent yet we have so far to go. I miss my Queen she also sadi you have to be the change you want to see..Yesterday was the great Dr  Martin Luther King Jr Birthday.   What do think he would say about our current state of affairs. Dr King was a Baptist minister and social activist, who led the Civil Rights Movement in the United States from the mid-1950s until his death by assassination in 1968. Dr King did more in 13 years than anyone has done 350 years. Real Talk !


    If Black lives matters to the Churches point out one thing they are doing about this black on black crime in there comunities.     To the Government does the yet to be the United States of American care enough to give a appolpgy or better yet REPARATION For the 400 years of slavery and the in Justice that goes on still today ?  Do Black people care enough to stop killing each other to others?  Stop talk bad about each other?   Royal Family lets weigh in on this topic this being  Dr Martin Luther King Birthday was his death in vain he died for this cause what can we do?  


    Over the past four centuries, generations of black people have asked the question: What is a black life worth?


    The answer to this question has been complex. But, lately, it is a question that bears asking due to the increasing amount of black bodies populating city streets and morgues.

  • 01:15

    How to Reconcile a Marriage After Major Trouble - The Joe Beam Show

    in Relationships

    Ready to reconcile your marriage after a major problem?


    Or maybe you want to know how to reconcile your marriage if you can get past your current problem. 


    In this program we will talk about how the expecations some have about reconciliation are not the same as the reality of what it will take to reconcile, what happens during reconciliaiton, and what your relationship will be like after you've put your marriage back together.


    True reconciliation requires things such as:


    - Understanding each other's hurt (and the grief process that goes with that hurt).


    - Seeking and granting forgiveness.


    - Defending each other.


    - Rebuilding trust.


    - Developing mutual accountability.


    - Changing communication patterns.


    - Understanding insecurities and potential comparisons.


    - Creating rituals (maybe replacing old rituals).


    ...and much more.


    We have as special guests a couple whose marriage was torn apart by infidelity. They resolved their problems and reconciled. They will tell their story.


    Additionally, Joe Beam will answer questions from callers during the program about this topic or any other relationship topic they wish to discuss. To be part of the program, call 646-378-0424.


     

  • 02:00

    How to Save Your Marriage in 2016

    in Relationships

    How To Save Your Marriage In 2016


    It's the start of the new year, and it could also be the start of a new marriage. The same marriage that you fought for last year, but this year, what if it could be different?


    What if it could be new? You're probably thinking, "I've tried standing for my marriage, and nothing is working." I understand. We've been there, too. 


    But tonight, we want to encourage you and revitalize your mindset to help you start 2016 strong in standing for your marriage... ...and how you can do that?


    Tune in tonight at 9 pm CST at www.marriageradio.com or by calling in at 646.378.0424. 


    If you have a question, press the number 1. Everyone we talk to will be entered into a drawing to receive 50% off the Marriage Helper 911 workshop! (The workshop is never publicly offered at this price) 


     Talk to you tonight!

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