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7 time BET Allstar Comedian Shawn Harris talk sexual liberation, fashion, and new music with Adina Howard.
I Wish I was a Beauty Queen
I spent too much time wishing I would be someone I'm not
I wish I had smaller thighs
I wish I had prettier eyes
I wish I had cuter toes
I wish I had a better nose
I wish I had fuller lips
I wish I had smaller hips
I wish my stomach was flatter
I wish all this didn't matter
All this wishing
And compliment fishing
Does nothing to change my soul
I'm just trying to fill a hole
A hole created by this warped definition of beauty
But I'm unique
I'm no longer weak
No longer wanting to change
told me they swear
Fall under this 'category' of beauty
But I am here to prove them wrong
And show that I am strong
And show I belong
in this 'category'
no longer warped
no longer having to be worked
to be given the title
Of a Beauty Queen
From Blogger Chrystal Bougon
How does someone as fat as you have so much confidence? Where do you get your great self-esteem?
I have gotten this question a lot in my lifetime. I have been fat since the third grade and I am 47 now. So that is a lot of years in a fat body. Now I own a plus-size lingerie boutique and the topic of confidence and self-esteem in a fat body comes up at our boutique pretty much seven days a week. Every single day, without fail, this topic comes up. "Chrystal, how can I become confident in my fat body? What is the trick?"
So this does beg the question: Where do we get our self-esteem? How does a fat woman get to be so confident? Where did I get my own self-esteem? I have been asking myself and my community that very question a lot recently. Personally, I feel like my family and the way I was brought up gave me a good base. Unconditional love can do that for a person. I was blessed to have family who did not shame me because of my body.
This is going to sound trite, but stick with me. When I was a kid I was a voracious reader. Any magazine, book, newsletter that crossed my path I read. I read a ridiculous article in Cosmopolitan once about how women should find one thing about their body that they liked and focus on that. (It was next to an article about how to measure if your boobs are droopy by trying to hold a pencil underneath them. You have to love Cosmo in the '80s. I was 14.) But, internally, I started that discipline when I was about 14. I would focus on things like "wow, I have really cute toes." Yes, at 14. "I love how my skin gets so tan in the sun." "My green eyes are really pretty," I would repeat to myself.
Acceptance a poem by Barbara Dixion
This is who I am
This is all I've got
These are my mistakes
And everything I'm not
I'm not asking for your love
I want you to accepct me
LEt go of these chains
Set me free
Yes I mess up
And I'm nowhere near perfect
But are the brusises and scars
Really worth it
Maybe I'm just a kid
Who grew up way too fast
And I'm tryna make a future
But i'm stuck in the past
And you look so skinny
But You feel fat inside
You eat to cure
The emotions that have died
And you're dying to be loved
Cause you don't even love you
And you're sitting in pain
Don't know what to do
you look and smile in the mirrior
But the smile looks fake
And looking at yourself
Was another mistake
You hate yourself
And you wish you were pretty
And so you wallow
In your self pity
You're hoping to be accepcted
Cause you're so misunderstood
You'd change your life in a second
If only you could
Feel less worthless
And gain some self esteem
Maybe things wouldn't be
As bad as they seem
So you're writing yourself
In hopes that
You'll get better
Maybe one day you'll see
That you're a shooting star
You'll see that you've come
So very far
And accepct yourself
For who you are
A Cougar: An "older," experienced woman who happens to find herself in a sexual relationship (committed or not) with a younger man. She is not necessarily a slut, nor is she desperate. She offers sexual expertise and is open to new experiences. She simply wants to have fun. Though older, she may actually look younger than her "hook-up." She is attractive, confident, and just wants to have fun. She will not attempt to trap her mate into marriage, children or even an exclusive relationship. She is not interested in drama or games, as that would interfere with the pleasure she enjoys.
She's A Cougar.... By Eugene Carmen
She is a predator at night and a proper lady in the day Young men, the younger the better but in their early 30's is okay She has money, but wants to own several men They can't satisfy her cravings, but do the best they can She knows their weaknesses, like Superman and Lex Luthor She is a well known species, she is a Cougar Her men better be in shape, she likes the hunks Buys them drinks to get them drunk She looks good for her ripe age But without the makeup, she could be put in a cage She wears the Minks, not some on sale Kmart fur She lives next door, watch out for the huntress in the local cougar ....
As We Dance
In the sky less stars tonight But who needs shards of light when the sparkle in your heart ignites fire in the alley of my mind. I close my eyes, just to feel me swinging in your arms I trust to fall knowing you will hug me tightly as we dance Under a sky void of light, my sweet Psyche, my soul I keep your world upright. The darkness now bright, truth streaming from deep behind those wonton eyes. My heart has been ignited by the comfort of your mind as we dance.....
Trust Me, Love me
I cry for you, I cry right now
I wonder why, I wonder how
You've hurt my feelings
You've broke my heart
I hate it when we're always apart.
I love you, but do you love me?
Is our love fake or meant to be?
We hug, we hold hands, but that's all we can do, I wish I can do more, but that's all up to you.
Why can't you trust or believe in me? You think I cheat, is that what you see?
I would never hurt or break up with you, at least that's what I think, do you think that way too?
When I'm with you I'm as happy as can be, I think about you all night, do you think about me?
I think you're funny and also very strong, some times I feel like nothing can go wrong.
Do you even know my feelings for you? I wish I can express my love that's been true.
I'll never forget the time we've spend, some times I wish that it'll never end.
Just give me a hug or even a kiss, I hope it's something that I'll never ever miss.
Forget what people say or might even do, you should always remember that I'll always love you!!
Join Angela Lauria of The Author Incubator as she interviews Jill Angie, author of the book, Running with Curves.
Writing Running with Curves turned into something pivotal for Jill. She wrote the book that she wished had existed when she started running almost 20 years ago, which was when she did everything through trial and error. She wanted to help others in the same boat as she was to avoid all of the experimentation and just get right to enjoying being a runner regardless of size.
She said that if she had known how life- and career-changing it would be, she would have started earlier. "I thought I just wanted to be someone that had written a book - but along the way, I became much more in tune with where I wanted to take my career," she said.
Read more and get the transcript here: Jill Angie on The Author Incubator
My Bs Friend is also my Through Thick and Thin....
My Special Friend
by Joe Leblanc
Your cheerful smile
Your caressing hand
It's the really simple things
That make your life look so grand
You're a special woman
It's in your eyes
I see the truth
There is no disguise
It's your spirit
Maybe your soul
But my life without you
Would feel painfully old
You've been a true friend
I hope you stay
I would be so very empty
If you ever went away
I Love my friends... Do you?
Omega Auntie Mothersill
Swan (Regina William-Mclean)
Curves In 3D Radio
MPAC My Pretty Auntie Closet
Ms. Central Florida Plus America 2015
Women On The Move.... Where Passion - Creates Action
Curves In 3D Radio Hott Topics With Auntie Welcomes:
The Dynamic Linda Scott of LS 1426. Inc the Executive Producer of Ls 1426 Swim Week Houston
June 12-14, 2015 (6pm-9pm)
LS 1426 Curves Swim Week
Sheraton North Hotel
15700 John F Kennedy Blvd, Houston, TX 77032
We are so excited Houston to bring to you "1426 Curves Swim Week," June 12-14, 2015. Get ready for a Fabulous Show, and Workshop.
June 12, Friday
Meet and Greet - all White Party with accent of Orange at Club Blaunsch 16305 Kensington Dr. #250 Sugarland, Tx 77479 "Fuzion Fridayz Tickets: $20 at the Door
June 13, Saturday
Model Workshop 12:00 Noon - 4;00pm
The Fabulous Panel will Educate us All you Need To Know Branding, and much more!!...
Location: The Art Institute of Houston - North 10740 N. Gessner Dr. Houston 77064
June 14, Sunday
Show Time: "Integrating The Runway"
Location: Sheraton North Houston
Tickets: $25.00 General $35.00 at the door $50.00 VIP
More Info www.1426-fashionweek.com
Auntie also Welcomes to Hott Topic:
The Talented Betty Humphrey of Destined 4 Greatness Productions and the Excecutive Director of hit Stage Play
"Is My Name On The Book" Judgement At The Throne Of God
June 13, 2015
Place: Edgewater H-S Performing Arts Center
Address: 3100 Edgewater Drive, Orlando, Florida 32804
Time: 6:00pm (Doors open at 5:00pm)
Tickets: $25.00 in Advance & $30.00 at the Door
Visit online at www.destined4greatnessproduction.com
What is Transgender?
I think sometimes, about what it means to be transgender. I probe and probe for answers, because as the possibility for a new age of enlightenment and safety increases, the others want to know. I’ve come up with many answers, but I can hold to none. I don’t deserve to paint the definition of a culture with the limited experiences I’ve had. I don’t see myself in the transgender identified people allowed on television. I don’t see myself in the transgender identified people making news feeds and giving high profile interviews. And as my nation’s exposure to our culture increases, likely will their curiosity. Am I transgender? Do I have the right? I’ve heard doctors, psychiatrists, may refuse transgender patients access to hormone therapy based on how dedicated or convincing their portrayal of their identified gender. If you want to be a man or woman, you’ll have to look like the women and men on TV. If you want to be transgender, you’ll have to look like the trans identified people on TV. Every single one of us who has an active role as either participant or observer in our society is prey to the crisis of validity. Am I pretty enough? Am I strong enough? Am I brave enough? Mom enough? Dad enough? Competitive enough? Successful enough? Rich enough? Sexy enough? Pious enough? It never ends. We’re, as a nation of people, being crushed and compartmentalized by this ever present lens, looming over us, exploiting our weaknesses and fears so it may grow wider, and support itself as it follows us, seemingly forever into the future.
just tell me what to say
feed me the lines you've rehearsed
put a mic in my mouth and a plug in my throat
it’s okay to be coerced.
i'll act like a puppet.
i'll move as you do my strings
i'll stand if you say and i'll sit if you want
i wont question anything.
i'll clear off all my makeup
take off my imperfections
stand like a baby while you judge me
you're just teaching me a lesson.
oh yeah, i'll take this mess
but you better believe
that after i take the key and swallow it
revenge will be so sweet
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