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How many times have you found yourself in conversations where someone brings up their painful past? It’s the broken record that comes up again and again and all the apologies in the world never seem to make it go away. So why do people do this? And more importantly, what can be done to put the past to rest?
Here’s what’s going on: When a person brings up the past, there is often something they want or need in the present. It’s evidence of what they need right now. It’s a here-and-now problem, not a past problem. That is why apologizing doesn’t work.
Regardless of what happened before, the person bringing up the past is feeling something similar now. They may feel hurt, unloved, insecure, misunderstood, or distrustful right now just like they felt before. They are trying to communicate to you what they need right now. Most likely, what they need is for you to understand how they feel in the present or what they need to change.
Unfortunately, many people do not communicate their needs directly. Some people may not even know what they need. Instead, many people express their needs in the form of complaints. “I need more attention” may come out as, “You never spend time with me,” which would naturally cause you to feel defensive. But defending yourself won’t work because the issue isn’t really about you.
Here are some things you can do to begin to overcome bitterness.
2. Make a plan
3. Stop Dwelling and Retelling
4. Seek Grace
5. Seek Professional Help
What is this I hear that you have CHURCH HURT? Who hurt you? Tune in with Pastor Monica for your 30 Minutes of Empowerment that will change your Life on Purpose. Allow her to help you get rid of your church hurt. God is mindful of you and want you healed.
Go tell someone to tune in and hear what will bless their soul. Bring your Bible, Pen, and Paper so you can write what has settled in your heart down for your rememberance. Getting Rid of Church Hurt, forever
Melissa Holmes is the founder of Love Shouldn't Hurt which is a Domestic Violence Awareness and Support Group.
Domestic Violence is an issue with in our communities. We must talk about it, help those who are looking to get out of abusive relationships, and educate others on the warning signs.
Join us for an informative show!
Pastor Brad Morgan of New Life Beginnings Church in Brookshire / Pattison, TX begins teaching today from a multi-part message about the biblical teachings of God regarding debt and finances. It all began in Easter 2008 with a delivery of a prophetic word. The word was, "God was telling me that there was grace today ... there is grace for this body to defeat debt ..." Pastor Brad shares why God's economy is quite different from the world's economy.
If you are interested in purchasing the complete 3-CD set of "God's Stimulus Plan - Getting out of Debt", email Pastor Brad at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Our Show and "Theme" is "GETTING THE WORD OUT," by Teaching, Preaching of the gospel, according to 2 Tim. 3:16 and Eph. 2:8-10, and listening to the heart cries of the listeners. IT IS ALSO THE NAME OF OUR SHOW/PROGRAM! For the Bible tells us: Zech. 4:6b "Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts." To Contact us you may Email us at email@example.com or telephone us at 305-917-5223 or 305-631-2108, for PRAYER/COUNSELING. or write us at: 12864 Biscayne Blvd., #255, North Miami, FL 33181, L. Robinson-Condeso Ministries,Inc., www.lrobinsoncondesoministries.org read more
Helen Woo endured her life. It wasn't living. Raised in a restrictive traditional Chinese-American household, she experienced self-esteem issues, mental and physical abuse, grief, substance abuse, betrayal and depression. Yet she still managed to have a successful career that allowed her to build a bit of a nest egg. Later, when she invested it in a partnership with a close friend, only to have her partner steal all of the assets, that betrayal was the last straw. Alone and raising a son, Woo knew something had to change-and it wasn't the world around her-it was the world within her.
Sometimes hurt feelings need to be cried out, and it helps to have a person we trust that we can do with this. Sometimes, depending on what the circumstances are, it might take a little while for healing, but we don't have to build a monument for our hurt feelings. Hurt is a part of us that hasn't been healed and needs to be embraced, so how should it be dealth with? If we keep experiencing hurt and responding in a certain way to similar circumstances over and over, you never work past the repeated pattern.
Join me at 6:30 p.m. EST on "Conversations Of A Sistah" as I address... How Do You Deal With Hurt?
Tonight we are talking about how hurt people affect us in our daily lives. Some people love drama that's a fact and they say misery loves company. So how do you avoid people who want to hurt you just because they have no way of dealing with their own pain? There are so many stories of men and women who go out of their way to make an ex partner hurt. Why? What do we gain from inflicting pain? Why do hurt poeple hurt people?
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Ben Moore of PantherTalk.com is joined by Georgia State Football Defensive Coordinator Jesse Minter to talk about his summer, getting ready for Fall camp beginning next week and much more.
And now the exciting conclusion to Edith's grandeous case. As she follows Catnip onto the Tamarind Lake docks, Edith finds herself smack dab in the middle of a giant drug deal, with one of the most sinister villians in Brentwood Heights in the middle of it. What will Edith do when she goes face to face with Paul Reiser Soze? Will she get Catnip home safe and sound? Will she ever go on that second date with Joey? Listen and find out on this Dopple Avenue Hurt spinoff series.
If you enjoy this episode, please rate and review us on iTunes, and if you would like to support our efforts to keep this podcast in production, you can visit www.sharkdropper.com and donate to our Patreon page.
Special Guest voice of Paul Reiser Soze played by Dan Lizette of The Podcast Digest podcast. Thank you Dan for the encompassing a great character.
Have you ever wondered if churches should register with the state to become tax exempt?
Have you ever wondered if people should have to get a marriage license from their state in order to get married?
On today’s edition of Home Front, we get into these issues and get you some good answers. We have a talk with Dr. Chuck Baldwin about the importance of getting churches out of the 501c3 trap and how to get the government out of the marriage business.
Chuck Baldwin's website is www.chuckbaldwinlive.com
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