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  • 00:23

    Gay Marriage Planning: Gain & Maintain Genuine Gratitude

    in LGBT

    This episode explores genuine gratitude:



    how to recognize it
    how to detect crafty forms of manipulation.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions. Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage. Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:28

    Gay Marriage Planning: Expectations Versus Agreements

    in LGBT

    What's the difference between expectations and agreements?  Why should you care?  Listen in and learn how to better match what you say with what you do.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions.  Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage. Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:16

    Gay Marriage Planning: Hidden Costs / Pricing The Priceless

    in LGBT

    What is the cost of living from a number of unique perspectives.  By the end of this segment, you'll discover the price paid for that which you may consider priceless.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions.  Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 00:25

    Gay Marriage Coaching Episode 10: Divorce Ethics From Morals

    in LGBT

    What's the difference between ethics and morals.  How does integrity fade or grow?  Join us to explore why we need to divorce the marriage between ethics and morals to strengthen all relationships - starting with yourself.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions. Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance. 


    Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 02:18

    Urban Therapy with Sun #134 Make Up Sex Fightin' And F******

    in Lifestyle

    Make up sex. What exactly is it? What's it to you?


    Is it a good thing? A bad thing? Something that all couples do? Something that has become more popular in the media in recent years? Is it safe? Is it dangerous? Is it something that makes up for an argument? Does it end with just an argument or disagreement or is violence sometimes what's being made up for?


    Are there people who actually start arguments or fights in order to initiate make up sex? Would someone do that?


    Is the sexual energy that comes after an argument healthy? Can it be unhealthy?


    Is make up sex really just a cover up for domestic violence?


    If you like make up sex but the person that you're with doesn't like it or understand it, how will that work? Can that work?


    Do most people who engage in make up sex usually know what they are getting into or does it get introduced to some people at the most inopportune times? Can you learn to like it and if so what does that say about a person?


    Boy are we gonna get into this one. The question is how will we get out of this one? LOL

  • 00:30

    College coaches, religion and gay rights

    in LGBT

    Clemson University football coach Dabo Swinney caused some controversy this week when he was to be honored by a South Carolina lobbying group opposed to gay rights and same-sex marriage. A petition was started urging him to cancel and he did on his own days later, saying he didn't want to be a distraction and did not want to seem to endorse all the group's views. It raises the question of what responsibility a coach has to a diverse student body and how that might clash with his beliefs.

  • 02:11

    Urban Therapy with Sun #133 Can Eating It Make Me Happy?

    in Health

    This show is kinda about eating disorders but not all the way.
    Does food make some people feel better? Does it substitute for other deficiencies in people's lives?

    Recently I put out a question on Facebook dealing with this situation: I just heard a conversation between two women in the fitness room and one of them was saying that she gained a lot of weight because she didn't have a man for a long time.

    Huh? Loneliness = weight gain?

    Can someone explain this logic to me?

    One of the things that many responders eluded to was that the woman in this example probably compensated her loneliness with food. Is this true? Can that work? Are there many people who resort to this?

    Can eating unhealthy foods make a person feel better emotionally? If so, why does it have to be the unhealthy foods that do the trick? When does it stop? Is it a woman thing? Do men go through this as well? If men go through the same thing then is it for the same reasons?
    Will men or women change their lifestyle when or if they get what they have been missing?

    We'll get into these things and more and we'll also talk about turning all of this around and how eating nutritional foods can also cause emotional problems.

    This show will be the absolute bomb! Tell some friends.

  • 00:27

    Meet A Blond Jesus - Garrett Miller ~ Singer ~ Author ~ Producer

    in LGBT

    How often do you meet a BLOND Jesus!? 


    In the next 30 minutes, you'll learn how Garrett Miller is THE Blond Jesus -  the title of his newest CD out NOW!


    What drives Garrett to take on such a controversial name?  How might his song It's A Nice Day For A Gay Wedding released on May 15th stir things up?  Listen in to find out!


    Enjoy Garrett's mix of wit, wisdom and crescendo song -  Blond Jesus -  at the end of the show!


    While listening, visit Garrett's:



    Facebook Fan Page
    Twitter 
    Site ~ Press Kit


    Before you go, remember to click on the Follow button above to keep up with new shows.  


    Click this link to access all our on-demand shows - downloadable to listen to any time!


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     Blond Jesus author, composer, volcalist:  Garrett Miller.  Replay music release signed May 24th, 2015.

  • 00:30

    Appreciating Therapy Animals

    in Pets

    Today we will be discussing the different catagories of animals that provide assistance to people.



    Therapy animals
    Emotional Support animals
    Service animals
    Household pets


    Animal assisted therapy has been shown to significantly  reduce pain, anxiety, depression and fatigue in people with a range of health problems.


    Be sure to call in to speak with Judy Helm  Wright-"Pet Grief Coach" and her expert guests on the show.  You will be glad you did.


    Claim your fun new book "Pet Jokes, Riddles and One-liners" by signing up for our community of kind thoughtful people who have respect for all. Your copy is waiting at www.deathomypet.com  

  • 00:27

    Gay Marriage Planning: You Get What You Pay For

    in LGBT

    What is karma? How does karma help or hurt relationships.  That old saying, 'what goes around comes around' packs powerful lessons. Get ready to learn.


    Questions about this show?  GREAT!  Call 312-268-0000 to record your question. Soul will air your question and share his ideas on your question on upcoming shows.


    Your host Soul Dancer, an out, gay, licensed wedding officiant in Hawai'i is also a social worker (masters level, private practice), monk of three orders and shaman in three traditions.  Check out Soul's 12 month program to co-create a healthy, happy, lifetime marriage.


    Contact Soul to schedule him to officiate your wedding at least six months in advance.


    Music: Eternal Hope by Kevin MacLeod Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0

  • 02:20

    Urban Therapy with Sun #132 Through with The Man/Woman But Not The Kids

    in Family

    What happens when you end a relationship with someone but you have forged a really strong bond with the kids during your relationship with your ex man/woman even though the kids aren't your biological kids? You may have had a hand in raising that so how do you handle that? Do you have the right to keep a relationship with them? How would that work? Could you set up visitation rights to still see the kids even though you're no longer with the mother/father nor are the kids your biological kids? Yeah, this is a serious situation.


    What happens when the kids ask where you are and when you're coming back around? What about when it is explained why you are gone and why you won't be back to stay? What do you do about missing them? Is that like divorcing the kids even though they aren't your biological kids?


    Do the kids have to sneak and see you? Do you have to sneak and see the kids?


    What about when either of you begin a new relationship with someone else? How do you explain to them that you just love the kids and probably still do for them but you're not dealing witht the ex anymore? Would you believe that if your new love told you that? Would a situation like that get in the way?


    Some people who have been in this stuation have actually taken custody of the kids? How does that work?


    Do you still keep doing for the kids that are not your own kids and if so, for how long?


    This is your show right here! Tell all your friends and relatives to tune into this one because it's gonna be something else!