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  • 00:57

    LUwJC#051 The Impact Judgment and Comparison Have On Your Personal Alignment

    in Self Help

    Today on Lighten Up, Jen and Cheri are exploring how Judgment and Conclusions lead to Misalignment and the Symptoms they generate. The habit of Judging and Comparing is common and nearly undetectable, unless you know the Symptoms they create.


    With Awareness comes the ability of make changes and create new habits that Contribute to your Alignment. Are you ready to increase your Awareness? Are you ready to be proactive in Supporting your Alignment?


    Call in and talk to Jen and Cheri directly! (646) 200-0825


    Learn more about Jen Halterman
    http://jenhalterman.me/


    Learn more about Cheri Gillham
    http://bodywisehealthcare.com/

  • 00:42

    John Carver Show - The Comparison Trap (Andy Stanley)

    in Self Help

    Andy Stanley says:


    There's NO win in COMPARISON.

    Let's face it. Not a day goes by that you're not tempted to glance to the left and to the right to see how you measure up to the people around you. But it doesn't stop there, does it? You're tempted to compare your children to other children, your spouse to other spouses!

    It's frustrating.

    It's exhausting.

    It's a TRAP!


    http://northpoint.org/messages/comparison-trap/

  • #128: OVERCOMING COMPARISON

    in Self Help

    OVERCOMING COMPARISON
    EPISODE #128
    Comparison is the thief of joy. –Teddy Roosevelt
     

    In this episode we’ll be chatting about:

     

    How the mental act of comparison is one of the most insidiously toxic types of thinking in which h we can engage or allow ourselves to dabble
    My three best strategies on how to really overcome the habit of comparison thinking
    A mantra that will help put more joy back into your heart and will help you continue to build the fence to create a boundary to keep the comparison thief out.

     

     

     

     

    THANK YOU TO:  

    Lauren!

     

    WHY DO WE COMPARE OURSELVES SO MUCH? 

     

    We engage in comparison because we are approaching life from a fundamentally flawed viewpoint: that we are in competition with others and that we must use them to measure and evaluate ourselves. Our connection to the cult of comparison is fed by our belief that our value is based on what we do, not who we are.

     

    Comparison is the by-product of criticism and self-judgment. Desperate to know we are enough, we judge ourselves and assess our value based off of how we see others are doing. Sometimes this leaves us feeling less than, other times we feel elevated and more than. Either outcome is dangerous.

     
    Here’s the bottom line of comparison: it is the thief of joy.
     

     

     

     

     

    Additionally, I was inspired to talk about comparison today because as a new mom, I have been introduced to a whole new world of comparison….how your kid is in comparison to other kids, to the developmental averages and to your hopes for them.

     

     

    THREE WAYS TO OVERCOME COMPARISON: 

     

    Change your belief system.

     

    You must train your thoughts to know that your value as a human being does not lie in what you have accomplished, in the number on the scale, in your success at the office or in the si

  • 00:54

    #128: OVERCOMING COMPARISON

    in Self Help

    OVERCOMING COMPARISON
    EPISODE #128
    Comparison is the thief of joy. –Teddy Roosevelt
     

    In this episode we’ll be chatting about:

     

    How the mental act of comparison is one of the most insidiously toxic types of thinking in which h we can engage or allow ourselves to dabble
    My three best strategies on how to really overcome the habit of comparison thinking
    A mantra that will help put more joy back into your heart and will help you continue to build the fence to create a boundary to keep the comparison thief out.

     

     

     

     

    THANK YOU TO:  

    Lauren!

     

    WHY DO WE COMPARE OURSELVES SO MUCH? 

     

    We engage in comparison because we are approaching life from a fundamentally flawed viewpoint: that we are in competition with others and that we must use them to measure and evaluate ourselves. Our connection to the cult of comparison is fed by our belief that our value is based on what we do, not who we are.

     

    Comparison is the by-product of criticism and self-judgment. Desperate to know we are enough, we judge ourselves and assess our value based off of how we see others are doing. Sometimes this leaves us feeling less than, other times we feel elevated and more than. Either outcome is dangerous.

     
    Here’s the bottom line of comparison: it is the thief of joy.
     

     

     

     

     

    Additionally, I was inspired to talk about comparison today because as a new mom, I have been introduced to a whole new world of comparison….how your kid is in comparison to other kids, to the developmental averages and to your hopes for them.

     

     

    THREE WAYS TO OVERCOME COMPARISON: 

     

    Change your belief system.

     

    You must train your thoughts to know that your value as a human being does not lie in what you have accomplished, in the number on the scale, in your success at the office or in the si

  • 01:59

    Comparison Hurting to Healing w/Melissa

    in Religion

    COMPARISON. Comparison is the thief of joy.-Theodore Roosevelt


    Comparison stems from Jealousy. Jealousy stems from Envy. Self-Righteousness leads to Pride.  And "Pride leads to the fall." "Let their be no guile, sly or cunning ways in my heart."


    Conformed to Compare: Publisher vs. Pioneering Status. Hours Submitted vs. Books Published. Anointed Class vs. Great Crowd.


    “I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do, I do not do, but what I hate I do.” Romans 7:15 


    Search me God for you know my heart. Help me begin to TRANSFORM my mind according to your ways, and help me take off every weight of COMPARISON.


    2 hour episode! Join me for an extended time. An extra 1/2 hour to talk and share! 


    Tuesday, March 10, 2015 ~ 7:30pm ET / 6:30pm CTRL / 5:30pm MTN / 4:30pm PAC. Call in and listen, share comments or ask questions at: 1-347-934-0379 OR stream live at: http://blogtalkradio.com/healingxoutreach


    Melissa get's talking every 2nd and 4th Tuesday of each month!


    www.genesis5020ministry.org~Responding~Transforming~ Revealing~Testing


     

  • 01:10

    The Dangers of Comparison

    in Religion

    Comparison is a thief that comes to steal our joy and strength; making us beat ourselves and others down while making our lives stagnant. Miriam Musau and Charity Maina will enlighten us on the dangers of comparison. Listen live: 619-393-2852 or www.pinnacleofpraiseshow.com. Thanks for choosing Pinnacle of Praise Show. Beatrice Ndura – Host

  • 01:01

    You Are More Than Enough: Avoiding the Comparison Crisis

    in Self Help

    It can be quite a struggle to identify who you really are and to discover what makes you uniquely you. It can be done, though. Much like any other process in life, the path to finding and embracing your authenticity, will take time, determination, and laser-focus. Join two of the Life Coach Radio Networks' most dynamic coaches, Lisa Marie Pepe and Antonina Romano-Bongiovanni as the pair dive in and show you how to claim your personal power and stop comparing yourself to others once and for all.


    Lisa Marie Pepe is The Confidence & Online Visibility Coach for Heart-Centered Women Entrepreneurs, a Business Mentor, Inspirational Author, and Motivational Speaker. She empowers her clients to fully embrace their unique gifts and talents by providing them with the skills they need develop rock-solid confidence, become vibrantly visible online, thrive in business, and create the life they most desire.To schedule a Free 30-Minute Clarity Consultation with Lisa Marie, please call 203-671-0139 or visit www.calendly.com/lisamariepepe.


    Antonina Romano-Bongiovanni, ELI-MP is a Transformational Life & Business Coach, Mindfulness Teacher, Conscious Leader, and Founder of Life Well Made. She helps individuals own their magic, awaken their true potential, and thrive in the face of change by helping them expand mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually to experience sustainable happiness and an abundance of peace, love, joy, and freedom in all areas of their life.

  • 02:00

    The Comparison of Struggles - A Fireside Chat with Seven Williams

    in Culture

    Tonight we'll be talking with writer, filmmaker and media professional Seven Williams. As part of our African American History Month recognition - we ask the question: Is it fair to compare struggles?  Check out Seven Williams on Twitter at https://twitter.com/Sietewilliams


    Shé:kon and Thanks for joining Native Trailblazers! The Native Show with over half a million listeners worldwide! 


    For over  six years, our award-winning Native themed online radio show has been delivering the hottest topics in Indian Country to your desktop, mobile or other listening devices! Listen in Every Friday at 7pm EST or any time after in archives!


    HOSTS: Vincent Schilling (Producer, Speaker, Journalist, Author, VP Schilling Media) www.Twitter.com/VinceSchilling  and Delores Schilling (CEO, Schilling Media, Inc.) www.Twitter.com/DelSchilling


    Join our chat room Here's How   Website www.NativeTrailblazers.com 


    Mailing List - http://eepurl.com/O7fa1  iTunes Podcasts- http://goo.gl/GkEOJ3

  • 00:26

    Gun Rights pale in comparison to another right the Right to Life

    in Religion

    Now I understand your position that believes if our military is seen as so strong that no other country would dare to mess with us, let me ask you to try and understand this.  All that is bull and we all know it.  You see, there will always be someone making attempts to be the biggest bully on the hill and if that is your position right now, rest assured someone will attempt to remove you and replace you.  This happens in all things right now.  We see our boss in a position of power and strive to reach that position.  We see the bully in the playground and work very hard to unseat him/her so that we could enjoy what we perceive that they are enjoying.

  • 00:27

    The Sin of Comparison

    in Christianity

    Host Annie Meadows and guest Helen Katano discuss comparing ourselves to others


    This is a repeat program from June.


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  • 00:45

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