Respect gets respect and wishes are just wishes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:blaming, blaming-others, brokenness, disorders, hatred, high-standards, hypocrisy, ignoring, 

If you want to respect your partner, then you have to be able to see ... Remember that how you say things can be just as important as what you say. ... Learn how to pick your battles and decide when it's better to let your partner get what he wants; ..... not about learning anything, it is all about how you would wish to be treated.