Find Romance in Unexpected Places

Tessa Watkins knows that romance can be found in unexpected places, particularly when women stop searching for sizzle and embrace plain old fun. “The type of person you’re normally attracted to and you date has been a big situation for a lot of my friends. They’re like, ‘Him? He’s the one that you want to talk to all the time?’ And it’s nothing about like the person isn’t handsome. It’s just that he’s not their type,” says the Tunes Love Chat host. “My girlfriends are going throught the same thing. They have a great guy but they’ll be like, ‘There something about him that’s just not clicking. Because he’s just so outside-of-the-box. I’ve heard other women go, he’s good, but he ain’t got swagger. And I’m like, if he’s doin’ everything good but he just ain’t got swagger, you need to re-evalute what swagger looks like.”