In the beginning: When I became/become a "Prison Wife"

I will speak about the beginning stages of deciding to stay with your husband when he gets incarcerated or when you decided to marry your man once he is already incarcerated. What to expect in the months/years to come. The emotions, financial difficulty, travel time, etc. If you are just starting out you need to hear this and if you have been doing this for a while you need to give your comments and experience.