Clueless about Dating...Help? The Gay Take

A "friend" once told me that women who get divorced and then re-enter the world of dating are "clueless"  

I must admit, fitting that mold, that things are quite different and confusing.

What are the new rules?

What do I need to know to have success in this arena?

I will be asking men and women their opinions on the subject, to help me get a "clue"

Tonight will be the first step. A rough draft so to speak. A pilot...And with thoughts from a gay male! 

Should be interesting...