Passage to Empowerment - Who's Driving Your Bus?

Who's actually at the helm of where you are heading?  Do you find yourself doing things you really never wanted to do, but your parents believed was best for you to do?  How about your social activities?  Have your "friends" convinced you that a night on the town somewhere you do not want to go is exactly where you should be?  Are you sitting at the wheel of the bus or in the back waiting to see where others are going to drop you off? Or are you in total control?