How You Can Make Your Partner Lovable

“‘How you can make your partner lovable‘ doesn’t make sense,” you say. “S/he is either lovable or s/he isn’t. I’ve got nothing to do with it.” Join us for this episode of Every Day Love, as we explore a different point of view. According to this point of view, how you experience your partner depends, among other things, on your selective attention and your tendency to label or not label. It’s an important issue: You can’t love someone whom you experience as unlovable. Want to love your partner? Take responsibility for your experience.