Does getting a divorce always hurt....Maybe

As I grew up I always heard people talk about how devastating a divorce can be, now that I am older, and of course had similar experiences myself, I can say a divorce can be expensive and not.

Now when we look at some of the reasons for a divorce I think it would be fair to say a divorce may mean the light at the end of a very dark tunnel, I guess it's how we look at it, there is always the angry wife/ angry husband scenario and there is also the mutual agreement divorce, I want to talk about the who is at fault divorce and what is considered fair in a case like that when someone is really hurting. In most cases a separation granted by the court could be a like a criminal waiting for a death sentence, the on going drama of it all can be overwhelming. I always have a question, when is a divorce considered a happy one?

I welcome all open minded person to join me in this discussion.