Are you constantly vying for first place in your husband or wife's world? Is your relationship suffering because work, extra-curricular activity, or maybe even the children are placed in front of you on a consistent basis?
Does it REALLY matter? Here's a better question: DOES GOD HAVE A SPECIFIC PRIORITY ORDER IN PLACE and either you don't know what it is or it's being ignored?
What do YOU say? What does HE say??