What do you expect out of marriage? Now What?

First it was everyday, then down to twice a week, then once a month, now you get it in quarterly. You want to chill, she wants to go out. That stimulating conversation that used to keep you up until three in the morning is eroding. The extracurricular is now becoming the priority. WHAT DO YOU EXPECT FROM MARRIAGE? Are you getting it? If not, what's compensating for what's lacking? Should marriage have a "HALL PASS" Built in to the equation? Meaning, once a year you get "let off the leash." Can you handle a hall pass?