Dr. Gary Salyer Says It's Safe to Love Again

I swore after my first divorce, that my next marriage would be different. So when my second marriage crumbled almost a decade later for nearly the same reasons I was devastated. I felt like an utter, complete failure. All I could see was hopelessness on the horizon.

But I was determined to find another way. I was not going to be that guy who bounced from marriage to marriage never really learning anything. So I found someone to mentor me and explored my past. I read books — lots and lots of them.

In fact, I dedicated myself to doing the deep research about all things love. I had deep conversations with people I loved. Most of all, I did the deep transformations that unlocked my heart and released my soul to love as I had always imagined.

Then something wonderful happened. Love — and how to make it lasting – became my life’s highest calling.