Have Women Spent Too Much Time Attempting to Be Like Men?

When you ask women what their role is in a relationship, they seem to be lost for words.  They can tell you what they don’t want.  They can tell you what men are responsible for.  Yet, they are clueless about their role and how to be a valuable asset to a man.  And, for some reason, they believe men should invest in them.

The result has been record low marriage rates.  Men are walking away.  On the surface, it may appear men are walking away from possible divorce.  That makes sense because over 70% of divorces are initiated by women.  While that is partly so, men are not seeing how they benefit in relationships.  The other outcome is movements like red pill, MGTOW, black pill and many other philosophies that encourage men to take a step back and reevaluate what they are getting out of dating, relationships or marriage.

Perhaps the real problem is women have spent so many decades attempting to compete with men they have forgotten their roles as women.  The very thing men want from women is femininity.  Now it is a missing trait in western women.  When men confront women with the facts, women begin to fill the air with countless excuses.

If women really want to avoid the life of a spinster, it would be wise to sit down and listen to men.  Then they may want to go to their grandmothers who might have a better understanding of the female role in relationships.

As for men in the US, they have more options than women.  There are women in the US who already understand or are open to learn.  When those women are all taken, men can choose feminine women in other countries.  No one chases women who pretend to be something they are not.  People want authenticity.

Let’s address this in a way men can openly share and women can honestly learn.