When Is Ok To Tell Family To F%$* Off?

Do you have a few family members that think that they can talk to you anyway that they want to? Have you ever wanted to tell them to go to hell, but felt like you can't say that for they are your family. Your Family is what you make it, meaning if have blood family that just never act right with you, you dont have to call them family if you dont want to. And you may have some real good friends that will have your back no matter what, that you can call family. Sometimes it's ok to say F*@% family, they will be the ones that will use you faster than friends will.