Stubbornness Mucking Up the Relationship Works

This week my experiences showed me how being stubborn can muck up the works and prevent us from experiencing the joy we are intended to experience. Life has a way of unveiling ways of being that we were not aware of and while doing so sometimes we find ourselves being as stubborn as can be. We insist on holding onto old habits and ways of being that are no longer serving us, but are familiar and provide us with some form of satisfaction. Perhaps the person we love wants us to give it up. Also perhaps the one we love is pushing us to let it go, give it up, stop doing whatever it might be. Because we are being pushed instead of recognizing how little the thing really means to us and giving it up for our own good; we dig in our heals and say no way. When we dig in our heals, insisting that we must have our way and the one we love does the same; we have a standoff and no one wins! Refusing to let go of what no longer serves us rips apart the relationship. Anger, frustration, and hurt feelings replace the love we felt for the other person. Our lives are ours to create, if the habit or way of being is more important than the one we love then our priorities are a little messed up. There is one thing within our realm that lasts an  eternity; that is the Spiritual Being residing within the flesh suit that is being just as stubborn as you are. Relationships take work and willingness to compromise. Giving things up that we have held onto for a long time is personal growth and if it helps your relationship then let go of it. Ask yourself if the consequences of holding onto the habit or way of being that may provide fleeting pleasure is worth losing the love that lasts an eternity.

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