Love When You're Ready, Not When You're Lonely

When you love someone out of loneliness, you're just using them to fill this emptiness inside. You lost someone that meant a lot to you, which is always hard to get over quickly. However, it's never fair to that next person you're "loving". You don't mean to but you are using them to help recover with the pain you're feeling.  It will never last because they're just a temporary lover, not a forever lover.