Are You Relationship Ready?

The reality is that we're complicated and so are our lives. What we think we want and what we actually need are often very different. 

If I had to pick one question that I get asked most often by my patients it would be, “Am I ready for a relationship?” Week after week I sit with forlorn and lovesick people who are desperate to find love and terrified that they never will.

The inquiring minds on my couch want to know:

-Can I trust my judgment?
-Will I pick the wrong person and get hurt?
-Am I lovable?
-Will I ever meet that special someone?

“Relational health” is not a familiar concept for most people, yet it’s the cornerstone of well-being for all of us.  Your relational health is defined as the quality of your interpersonal relationships with the barometer being your own sense of happiness.