Manly Men Verses Unmanly Men

What does a godly man look like? (You can substitute the phrase "manly man" for "godly man." The two are the same.)

Is he broad-shouldered, self-confident, tough, successful? Is he powerful, committed to his purposes, able to keep in check emotions that might interfere with achieving his goals? Does he keep moving against all odds, never indulging the urge to panic or cry? Does his deepest enjoyment come more from what he has accomplished than from what he is like to be with?

That's the traditional view: Real men are tough, tough enough to lead and make decisions and keep on moving. But for the last 10 or 20 years, that view has taken a beating.