"LOVE THY NEIGHBOR AS THYSELF" <-- WHY WE CAN'T GET RIGHT ON THIS

In the New Covenant God commands us to "Love God" and "Love Our Neighbor As Ourselves", YET we want all the Grace and Mercy, Cup Runneth Over for "me" but will deny a drop of oil for our neighbor we have judged unworthy. We want people to Pledge Jesus when we skated in, we paper, we did nothing to EARN or MERIT the Grace of the New Covenant Kingdom Message. Jesus is standing at the door and knocking at men's hearts and we telling him don't go over there, we got a list of reasons why Jesus should not chose that person for this or that. Even our Righteousness is Filthy Rags to HIM, yet we coming boldly before the Throne of Grace trying to accuse somebody like the devil. We got to get back LOVE, We can't please God whom we can't see if we can't LOVE those we can see.